about

---what's up i'm icky the wee genderqueer dyke. i'm a white métis 24 year old, living in so-called "canada". i'm an optimist and i care so much about every little thing. tpwk 🌈

interested in:
★ decolonization
★ accessibility
★ being useful
★ weird art
★ being an alien
★ not living under capitalism
★ being the most gnc person in the roller rink 🛼

links

interests

Hobbies
★ gardening
★ knitting
★ photography
★ rollerskating
★ sewing

TV/Movies
★ arcane
★ the get down
★ little shop of horrors { 1986, 1960 }
★ moonlight
★ red dwarf
★ star trek { ds9, tng, tos }
★ strange empire

Games
★ animal crossing
★ firewatch
★ journey
★ minecraft

Music
★ 100 gecs
★ 4th curtis
★ big joanie
★ christa couture
★ clipping.
★ the coup
★ danny denial
★ dua saleh
★ ezra furman
★ harry styles
★ jaden
★ janelle monáe
★ laura jane grace
★ left at london
★ lilith ai
★ LP
★ meet me @ the altar
★ proper.
★ sam cooke
★ stormzy
★ tessa violet
★ thao and the get down stay down
★ TORRES
★ vienna teng
★ willow
★ worriers

gender

---i’m a genderqueer butch dyke. gender is a performance and i’m getting rave reviews. i am not intersex and i don’t experience transmisogyny

pronouns

they / them / their / theirs / themself
---They are a farmer. That hat belongs to them. Their favourite flower is a sunflower. That book is theirs. They like themself.

xey / xem / xyr / xyrs / xemself
---Xey are a farmer. That hat belongs to xem. Xyr favourite flower is a sunflower. That book is xyrs. Xey like xemself.

---either of these are fine, and feel free to mix and match !

words

names
★ icarus, icky, ick
★ ollie, oli
★ sphinx
★ jack
★ kat

affirming:

★ glamorous
★ handsome
★ dazzling
★ knight
★ butch
★ cat
★ lad
★ gal
★ spouse
★ husbutch
★ mx, mixter

sometimes:
★ woman {generally; if you also have a complex relationship to womanhood}
★ dyke { if you're lgbt }
★ wife { around cishets }
★ bro, dude, guy, etc {casually, if we’re friends}

never:
★ enby
★ boy
★ girl
★ man
★ mrs, ms, miss, ma'am
★ sir

content descriptions

---i try to provide content descriptions for most things i reblog and everything i post. they are tagged as follows

---i’m happy to take any criticism on my IDs, as i’d like to make them as useful as possible. if you notice a typo or mistake Please let me know and i will fix ASAP.

---if you are the OP, feel free to correct anything about my description. also, please consider adding it to the original post for greater accessibility, i don't need credit !

content warnings

---i tag basically everything i'm aware of, with very few exceptions. if you need anything tagged don't hesitate to ask.

★ i Won't tag body image, flat chests, thin body, or similar. i Will tag #nudity and #bare chests
★ i Won't tag pda. i Will tag #kissing
★ i Won't tag donation posts

---if there's anything else i can do to improve your access to this space, please let me know !!

do not interact

---i block anyone that makes me uncomfortable, or endangers those in my community. if you’re here to engage in good faith you’re probably fine.

disclaimers

---i’m autistic and seriously avoidant, and i find socializing, especially via text, to be Agonizing. even acknowledging posts at times gives me massive anxiety. if we have ever interacted, please assume that i feel warm emotions for you and wish i could be of more support.

---you can unfollow or block me for any reason and i won’t comment on it, even if we’re friends. just please don’t Soft Block me { block then unblock } because i don’t want to get confused and refollow !!

---if i like your art and dont reblog it, its because i'm writing a description for it, or its in my long and illustrious queue; i promise it will post someday

---please let me know if you notice i have reblogged from someone shitty.

---it's not your responsibility to educate me if i'm being shitty, but if you have a concern you'd like to bring to me i would welcome your input, and will do my best to respond with humility.